C.H.
Welcome to motherhood! I think most of the moms on this site have been through this at some point in their life. the first thing you should do it contact your OB-GYN. there is blood work that they can do to see if your hormone levels are where they should be. I went throuh the same thing after each of my three children. My blood work was all fine. My OB told that is just a stage in a woman's life. She said that after having a child there are so many things running through your head, that sex is kind of shoved in the corner. First of all be thankful that your husband is understanding, most aren't, especially shen it comes to their "needs". One thing to try is getting some alone time with your husband without the baby. I know it is tough, but maybe she can have a "sleepover" at a family member or good friend's house. I know for me the baby monitor is a big distraction. It seems like I am always waiting for someone to wake up, so my mind is not where it should be. it is a tough time in ones life, but you are not alone!!!!